What to do when someone dies

Immediate things to consider

Losing a loved one is incredibly difficult, and in the days immediately following, you may feel overwhelmed. While grieving, there are a few essential steps to take that can help ensure your loved one’s affairs are handled smoothly. These steps may include registering the death, securing any property and important documents, notifying close family and friends, and locating the Will if one exists. This process can be emotionally challenging, but by taking these initial steps, you can begin to bring order to a difficult situation

Registering the Death

Registering a death is an essential step that legally confirms a person's passing. This process, typically completed within five days, requires specific documentation and provides you with a death certificate—needed to manage the deceased’s estate and other affairs.

Organ donation

England now operates under an “opt-out” system for organ donation, also known as "Max and Keira's Law." This means that unless a person has explicitly opted out, they are considered a potential organ donor upon death. Family wishes are still consulted, and it’s essential to discuss your preferences with loved ones to ensure they understand your wishes

Arranging the Funeral

Arranging the funeral is often the first priority for families, as they strive to honour the wishes of the person who has passed. Most people aim to plan a service that reflects their loved one’s values, beliefs, and preferences. It can be a time to celebrate their life, bring together family and friends, and find a sense of closure.

Tell Us Once Service

The "Tell Us Once" service allows you to notify multiple government departments of a death in a single step, making the process smoother and helping to ensure all relevant authorities are informed. This can ease the administrative burden on families during a difficult time.

Securing An Empty Property

If the deceased person left a property, it's crucial to take steps to secure it, especially if it will be vacant for an extended period. Ensure all doors and windows are locked, and consider setting up a security system or notifying a trusted neighbour. You may also want to inform the insurance provider, as properties left vacant can sometimes require additional cover.

Caring for Dependants

If the deceased person cared for young children, elderly relatives, or other dependants, it's essential to make arrangements for their continued care and support. This may involve coordinating with family members, reaching out to social services, or checking if any legal guardians were appointed. Ensuring these dependants are looked after during this difficult time is a priority and can provide peace of mind for all involved.

Looking after Pets

If the deceased person had pets, you may need to ensure they’re looked after or rehomed. Arrangements might include contacting family members or friends who can take the animals, or reaching out to local animal shelters and rehoming services if no one is available. Taking care of beloved pets can offer comfort and continuity for them during this transition.

Coping With your Loss

Grief is a natural response to losing someone significant in your life, and everyone experiences it in their own way. It’s important to allow yourself time and space to process these feelings. Surrounding yourself with supportive people, seeking counseling, or joining grief support groups can all provide comfort during this difficult time. Remember, there is no right or wrong way to grieve, and help is available if you need it.